Art of being indifferent....☺

Emotions & Events are interlinked. All normal human beings are affected as well as effected by events & emotions. Hardly do we witness any change in these normal scheme of things. Effect of any emotion is always subject to its perception by the individual. No matter howsoever good or bad maybe the emotion, but its perception by the individual determines its actual effect. I don't wish to elaborate & dig into the intricacies nor do I wish to play with plethora of words or loaded terminologies.
We all know that no human is emotionally bankrupt nor is anyone a buddha that he remains unaffected by circumstances. We all have a heart that ultimately beats & bleeds for someone. The extent of emotional expressiveness of every individual is different & it can be debated. But the existence of emotions or a concept like emotion can never be debated. One of ways to be emotionally independent is to have zero perception towards any event. Now that remains a theoretical concept with no practicability. But a suave & intelligent way to be emotionally independent is to have perception which isn't guided by the nature of emotion. For example, trust deficit with a best friend can lead to sadness & worthlessness but emotional way to deal is to tell yourself that 'he didn't deserve my trust & it was my mistake to trust him'. The moot point of my argument is that don't let others invade your emotional space.
If you're subjected to some bad emotion, so be it. But develop a mechanism in yourself that tells you 'Life is all about me & myself'. It's about having a poker face outside & a beating heart inside. Happiness is a pre decision we've to make. Because if we're affected by every event then one day that element of original personality is lost. You're born as 'XYZ'. You must die as 'XYZ'. Don't let others' doings change the person in you.
YOU ARE BORN ORIGINAL
YOU DIE ORIGINAL
It's all about being indifferent.
It's all about poker face with a beating heart...😊

Dare To Think Beyond Emotions

The focal point of any discussion about life is being happy & being successful. While both happiness & success are relative as terminologies. They have different implications & appropriations for different individuals. By & large our ambition is confined to these two adjectives.
I sincerely believe that we think more about achieving these two rather than really achieving it. We have myopic vision about these two things. I wish we had broad-spectrum definition about these two things. The mettle within us melts when we're disgruntled & disappointed by relatively small failures. The problem with disappointment is that it withholds us from thinking & aiming big. If small follies & failures disappoint us then we cannot reach beyond that last blue mountain.
Everyone of us is bounded with those shackles of mediocrity that prevents us from going beyond that self-demarcated boundary. If what people think drives us to our conclusions then we're starving ourselves from crossing that pinnacle in life. All of us have a heart within the heart which makes us subject to emotions but it's about crossing that barrier & reaching beyond.
No one is immune from emotional needs but we have to make a decision for ourselves. We have to decide as to do we want to be lifelong hostage to emotions or we want to reach beyond that last blue mountain.
It's about dreaming big, really big, magnanimous, giant, huge, enthralling, larger than life, breaking shackles of mediocrity......
Do think over it!!!

Controlling Infatuations

Every individual is inflicted by emotions. It is very natural to have emotions & not having them is being abnormal. It is this emotional bonding which makes core foundation for all the human relations. As an individual we are also attached to non living substances forget friends & relatives. All the emotions compounded together form a dynamic equilibrium.Everyday there are instances where we are angry, sad, happy, etc. but the equilibrium in us maintains the emotional balance.
Teenage-an age characterised by emotional imbalance. The upsurge of hormones coupled with a pressure peer group worsens this equilibrium. We all have infatuations which no one can deny. It is part & parcel of growing up. While most of us happily & temporarily enjoy this momentary phase of so-called LOVE but I am afraid that some of our friends get carried away by this. If love stories & couples were to be made at the age of 14-15, then I don't think our parents & teachers were fools to stop us. But that innate control over this temporary phase is the most important thing. There are much more important things in our life. Getting trapped in this web of temporary emotions doesn't pay. Equilibrium in emotions is the most important thing. Don't fool yourself into believing something which doesn't exist. If there is real substance in your love then it will remain even if you don't follow it. God has designed certain tasks for certain ages. This is not the age to get swayed away by temporary emotions. This is the age to build career & do great things.
IF IT'S YOUR REAL LOVE YOU NEED NOT FOLLOW
AND
IF IT IS NOT YOUR LOVE YOUR FOLLOWING WON'T MAKE A DIFFERENCE.
Think my dear friends.
I am writing this with fully sense of responsibility & thinking a hell over it.

Relativity of Truth

Human civilisation has spent centuries trying to find the absolute truth. The events & precedents which were considered to be true, are now being challenged radically. I often think that have we evolved in our thinking or have the things around us changed? Old beliefs & rituals are constantly being challenged in the name of intellect.
In this commotion & chaos we have missed the underline ethos of Ethics & principles. We have progressed enough to fly high in the space but equations of human relations have taken a hit. We may claim to have reached Moon & Mars but in the process we have reached tenterhooks of life & emotions.
By stating all this I do not intend to undermine the achievements of 21st century generation but I am point out the treasured past which we have lost in achieving this. Development in holistic terms should definitely include the inter personal relations. I strongly recommend & believe in the age old vedic proposition "Vasudhaiv Kutumbh" and "Sar Panth Sambhav".
With every passing day we have to come to terms that distances in miles are decreasing BUT distances in smiles are increasing. Whatsapp may have made communication faster but the inner connectivity between the people has decreased. After reaching the pinnacle of materialistic success, great men have realised that happiness is not in complex & complicated gadgetry but in touching the tender core of emotions. I do not mean that we go back to the age bullocks BUT lets not get trapped in this wires & buttons.
LIVE WITH TECHNOLOGY
NOT ON TECHNOLOGY.